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How to Use The Desire Map to Define Success on Your Own Terms

Last February I had a life-changing epiphany about defining success for myself. For a really long time, I believed that success involved being a professional, owning by own business, making six figures, having a family, and being able to balance everything with grace. I’m really good at achieving goals, so I was a professional (twice over, actually, being both an …

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Are You Clear on Your Life Vision?

Clarity calls to me, beckons me over like the popular girl from high school, tempts me with freedom, simplicity, and ease. “I have the answer,” Clarity says. “Join me. Become clear and all of the answers will be revealed. You’ll have everything that you desire. Your life will fall into place and you’ll be happy.” Except that Clarity seem juuust …

How to Figure Out What You Really Want

It’s officially 2017. If you’re not raring to go, if you feel overwhelmed with everything you want to accomplish this year and aren’t sure where to start, if you know you want more for your life but don’t know how to proceed, then I have a solution for you: The Desire Map. The Desire Map is a book, yes, but it’s …

Are You a Warrior?

One of my greatest fears, beyond that something will happen to my kids, is that I will find myself 80 years old, looking back at my life, and regretting that I didn’t live it fully. Two years ago, as I approached 39, with 40 clearly on the horizon, I felt deeply unfulfilled, despite a whole lot of accomplishments: two kids, …